How do you ask out girls?

[CaffeineCrave]

Originally Posted by spaceman-spiff

take em out and get em sloppy drunk >>>>>>

Ha, its not hard to get sex people. You don't need to get them drunk, all you need to do is be good with words and have the right attitude. Its better sex that way anyways.

[AdamBomb]

Everyone should be
1_:decisive
2_:calm
3_:know what your doing in life.

These are the three most attractive qualities in any person. Express these traits in 5 minutes is an art form~~~~

Because:

1_:Not knowing what you want to do is boring.
2_:Being hyper is invasive.
3_:And not having any goals or expectations for yourself is a hazard to anyone around you.

[afx]

Ok , dated many chicks , here comes the ides

Instead of talkin a lot, make her talk.
ask her questions.
Forget about ur manly hobbies such as cars guns airplanes etc..

after couple of dates (if u can manage that far)
tell her you really like her. and when she beside you she makes you feel special
then tell her you love her(even lie or not)
girls like that

[CaffeineCrave]

I have never been one with long talks about her, or long talks about me (not at the beginning at least). All I have had to do is find a way to get her interested in me. Then let her have me a little and push her away (jokingly). It seems to make them extremely interested in you and want you. I mean, how often do women find a hard to get single straight man? Nearly never and so far for me it makes them try to get you instead of you going after them, which is a nice luxury .

[mreeotw]

Originally Posted by CaffeineCrave

I have never been one with long talks about her, or long talks about me (not at the beginning at least). All I have had to do is find a way to get her interested in me. Then let her have me a little and push her away (jokingly). It seems to make them extremely interested in you and want you. I mean, how often do women find a hard to get single straight man? Nearly never and so far for me it makes them try to get you instead of you going after them, which is a nice luxury .

well you've heard the sayings all the good ones are either gay or taken if you prove yourself to be one of the good ones women will jump at the chance to spend time with you.
for me i've never been too good at the whole asking girls out, while i've been looking for my wife sicne i was 5 i've never wanted these silly hit and run relationships so i've not really bothered asking too many girls out (aside fro mthe 1 1/2 year period where hormones really hit home ) for me its all about friendship you know what i love to sit and talk with a girl find out whats going on, what her dreams are what her hurts and worries are, i love to be the one who gets to tell her, you're wonderful, in fact its not only girls who i do that with (not in a ga way guys) the whoe world is based upon relationships if you don't beleive me watch as a guy who knows the boss gets hired when you were better qualified, or look at holiwood its all about who you know, but if we use our relationships we don't deserve to have them.
let me put it this way for you guys who absolutly have to have a girlfriend now, what would you rtather have 1 girlfriend whom you may break up with and never see again or many many good female friends (or male friends)
at the end its all about who will be their for you when the **** hits the fan. some girls/guys just can;t handle it so they leave you, but a good friend will stick by you till death.

[Sim100]

Do not get her drunk, chances are you will get her drunk, talk ALOT, she will invite you back to her apartment/house, do whatever there like talk, arm round her, laugh, watch movies, she will ask you to stay the night, you will wake up in the morning, go and wake her up, and she will scream and say WHO THE f*** ARE YOU!! WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE!, she will call the police ect ect.....now on the serious note:

When i used to ask girls out, i made sure that we have stuff in common, like hobbies & interests because you cant do nothing together if you dont have anything in common!. Heres my little story on how i done it and still have it.

I used to be really, really shy with girls, affraid to ask them out and stuff but then one day, in July i had a party to go to, my mates party. When i got there, there were so many girls, and my mates, and i just hung out with my mates and that then one said
"5 o'clock, hot girl checking you out". So, because i lost my iPod i went over there and said
"You havn't seen my iPod anwhere" to which she replied no, then i said dam it then asked me
"When did you lose it?" i said
"Dont know".

We got talking and eventually i found out her hobbies and interests, where she lived her MSN address, luckily she likes romantic guys and i am one...apparently. The rest of the night was me & her talking and hanging out, then she told me
"I'm getting tired" to which i replied "Me too". I went over to my mate and said "Im off now i'll catch you later". Then me & Lauren(her) left and she had money for a cab and she said
"I dont want to walk on my own, this late, i'll get a cab home" i said
"Il walk you home if you want" she said
"Ok then". Still we started talking almost the whole length to her house and when we got outside the her house i said
"You doing anything tomorrow?", she replied
"No, not in the afternoon". So i invited her out to the Shopping Mall and said "I'll Call you tomorrow when im leaving my house" she said "Ok". We had a little peck on the lips and i went home.

We went out the next day to the mall, spent about 5-6 hours there, i eventually said to her the following week after spending so much time with her,
"We have been hanging out and seeing each other alot, and i feel this connection with us, do you want to take it to the next level?, Im not rushing you". Luckily she said
"Yeah, ok".

So, as you see i met her at a friends party, i lost my iPod that night and asked her if she knew where it was and it started from there. Always be pacient dont rush girls into things straight away, get to know them, take them to places thats she will like. Ive been with her ever since 14th July 2007and it all started over an iPod

[CCl]

I just go for it.

The worst that is going to happen is they will say no. at the end of the day your not going to cry about all that are you.

Just do it somewhere quite with none of your or her friends there. You want it to feel relaxed.....Its worked many many a time for me! =D