Sex Question

[AdamBomb]

How long have people waited until having sex with one another?
Was it worth it?

If someone has had more then one experience to share it doesn't mean they have to share them. But which ones have stood out?

[CaffeineCrave]

Shortest, 5hrs. (worth it and we dated for a few months after)
Longest, 3 months. (felt like forever, but it was well worth the wait)

[ding70]

The longer the wait the better the catch

[Swordfish]

Heres a hint in which to go by
If a girl gives it up on the first night, shes a whoe and not worth keeping. I wouldnt do her.

Usually takes me about a month, and its well worth it.

[Watchful Silence]

Funny... What does that make the man for taking it on the first night? Is he worth keeping? Does that make him a man ho? Or is this rule only for women?

The longest I ever went in a relationship before sex was about 2 months.

The quickest one I had turned out to be my longest relationship ever (now married nearly 15 years).

[mreeotw]

Originally Posted by Watchful Silence

Funny... What does that make the man for taking it on the first night? Is he worth keeping? Does that make him a man ho? Or is this rule only for women?

The longest I ever went in a relationship before sex was about 2 months.

The quickest one I had turned out to be my longest relationship ever (now married nearly 15 years).

good point, my stance is its worth waiting, there's pleanty of other stuff you can do rather then sex and its better if theres a deep emotional connection as well.

[Swordfish]

Men by that standards are called "Players"...
Or at least thats what I know. Honestly Ive never had a one night stand. Ill be damned if I ever do. If the sex is good, why bounce around? Doesnt make sense.

But in all seriousness, wait and drag it out as long as you can, trust me, its gunna get old after a long time unless you really love that person and she loves you (or the other way around). But wait as long as you can. Trust me when I say its all gunna be worth it in the long run, and thats really what more people need to be thinking about.

[AdamBomb]

Thanks, allot of honest feedback. That is much appreciated. I wanted to see what the trend out their truly was.

Originally Posted by Watchful Silence

Funny... What does that make the man for taking it on the first night? Is he worth keeping? Does that make him a man ho? Or is this rule only for women?

The longest I ever went in a relationship before sex was about 2 months.

The quickest one I had turned out to be my longest relationship ever (now married nearly 15 years).

Thats good to hear Watchful, congratulation... I was felt that someone could share from both ends of the stick...

I guess that I am right their with you guys. To Love and Be Loved is what it sound like we all want the most.

I waited awhile, and I am sure it was a good decision. For me feeling like I can truly get to know someone is just "real". And totally experience being loved is the most powerful thing to me. I personally know that I get feelings after sex, and I don't want to be the person that invests into something that is not worth it. I am 24 years old, and at this age the the females 24 and up, they know how to "get them selfs ___" and most likely are looking for someone to be with, or someone to use up... Thats how "I" look at it:p.

[thenyproject]

One night.

One month.

One week.

I've waited tons of times for tons of time and for not tons of times. No sexual experience I had prior to who I am with now felt as great emotionally and physically. Albeit I've had some great one night stands and some great out-of-nowhere sex, but I don't think the amount of time you wait is reflective upon anything.

I think it is all based on what you're after in the short term. If you're after nothing beyond the short term, it'll feel good or great depending on how the person you slept with feels after the first time you engage, no matter how long you did or didn't wait.

HOLLA!

[seeds_of_poison]

Your waiting period should depend on your intentions and expected returns in future.

Period.