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Ever gone up to a girl, talked to her, and find out shes just got out of a relationship with an "asshole" or "jackass" of a boyfriend?
True story: Walked into the club last Friday, and I got these three fine looking ladies in for free and at the front of the line, and start breaking the ice with them. One of them just got done with a two year relationship and it turned out to be bad for her. She STILL to this day keeps in contact, yet every time it gets her pissed off when they talk. Now heres what I want to know: why bother still talking to him? It s not doing you or him any good, and obivously its still pissing you off. Heres another thing: gentlemen, if you call yourself a man, you better use that opportunity to prove to them not all boys are assholes and looking to get into their pants (although that has a lot to do with it  ). Open the door for them, pull their chair out, etc...Anyways, just thought I d share and see what people have to say about her still talking to her ex...Muntzrn, why? LOL I d like to get a women's viewpoint on it.
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09-20-2007, 12:30 AM
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She got too emotionally close to him and still secretly has feelings for him even though he treats her bad.
Thats what I think at least.
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yeh she still has feelings for him even though she knows he;'s bad for her. she needs to realise its just damaging to her to speak with him.
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May be they like the abuse? Chaos? Drama?
Probably because they don't feel like they deserve the best. I am not sure why they are keeping in contact.... But Ill tell you that the future looks dim, if they don't eliminate the thought that they don't deserve the best for them selfs. ps. I hope they realize this before they meet one of us. And if you know their stories I think it is always the best to 'Walk the Walk' and let them see for them selfs.
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True that. I just dont know if its the right time to be rebound man ( taking a girl after shes broken up with a complete asshole) and go from there. Maybe though, we got a lot in common, and shes a model, so well see what happens.
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Is there any kids involved that she has to keep some sort of contact with him? I know the saying is that a person often falls for the same type even when they get out from one bad relationship but IMHO I think those guys are jerks and if they knew how to treat a lady then they would not have the issues that they have.
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